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tending to heart by squibblyquill, literature

Hair and feather by squibblyquill, literature

The lost by squibblyquill, literature

Through Flint Peaks by squibblyquill, literature

Mardi Gras Jambalaya by squibblyquill, literature

Akarenga by squibblyquill, literature

Exorcise by squibblyquill, literature

Orchid by squibblyquill, literature

for the would-be mothers by squibblyquill, literature

the tears i cannot weep by squibblyquill, literature

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Ideas to live by:


"If I can look directly at my life and my death without flinching I know there is nothing they can ever do to me again. I must be content to see how really little I can do and still do it with an open heart." - Audre Lorde, The Cancer Journals


"What we need to die well is also what we need to live well." - Cheryl Canfield


Gabor Mate's Four As and Five Compassions:

-Authenticity -Human Compassion

-Agency -Compassion of Curiosity and Understanding

-Anger -Compassion of Recognition

-Acceptance -Compassion of Truth

-Compassion of Possibility


Brilliant video on learning to thrive with healthy emotions: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WxBm9r2tpyY


Healing is a commitment to seeking wholeness, not perfection.

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I don't know why it's taken me this long to learn the name of Jennifer Freyd, the psychologist who works on interpersonal and institutional trauma. She coined the term DARVO (when abusers Deny, Accuse, Reverse Victim and Offender roles) as well as betrayal blindness and institutional betrayal. I am passionate about trauma, healing, justice, doing better. And her work is the backbone of so much of the new research on interpersonal violence and recovery. I've heard references to DARVO I don't how many times at this point. For those who struggle to find love in the wake of trauma, this is gold. Whether you want the empirical research side of things (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XIFBts9s56o) or a much more practical framework for the everyday (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OmwPb8AxxVI). One of the sad but common trends in interpersonal violence is that it's often made worse by institutions that condone the violence or punish survivors who seek justice. That was certainly the case
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A nice video on love and connection: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHrImgzzphY
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